“Don’t expect everyone to understand your journey, especially if they’ve never had to walk your path.
Every person’s life journey is different because each individual is unique and hence will have their own identity. For instance, all fruits from the same plant may not be the carbon copy of others, likewise the children born to the same mother also are not identical. Similarly, a different being’s life voyage is filled with different lessons, challenges, heartbreaks, joys, festivals, and many more memories. In the course of action of life’s travel, there are many reasons noted why every person’s life journey is different. I would embark by explaining a few of them:
1.EACH PERSONS PERCEPTION DIFFERS
“In social, you have to innovate in the information. If you have the same thing as everyone else, you’re just not interesting.” —DAVID MORIN
Every single human’s vision varies because your thoughts and actions might not converge with that of others but rather diverge. What according to your thinking is right could be claimed wrong by others. Your way of conceiving any matter can differ from the other man, suppose ups and downs in life could be taken positively by you but in the other person case, it could be taken as a very big issue, about putting it in a magnifying glass and enlarging the matter. You could also be a person who’s very open-minded and who is always ready to apologize, thank and appreciate the other person for any happenings but other people wouldn’t like to do the same either out of shy, fear, or arrogance.
2.EVERYONE’S CHOICES ARE NOT SIMILAR
“Have fun, even if it’s not the same kind of fun everyone else is having.” — C.S. LEWIS
Choices differ from person to person but what doesn’t differ is everyone has to make choices. Your choice of taking any decision differs from the other person. Your way of choosing something depends on your aim and your ideologies. Before I take any decision my way of thinking about it could differ from yours, for example, my choice of subjects in the inter varied from my friend’s choice as my way of choosing my career platform differed from my friends’ future. What we could conclude from this is that “Your life is a result of the choices you make…If you don’t like your life it is time to start making better choices.”
3. DESTINY IS NOT SAME
A person often meets his destiny on the road he took to avoid it. -Jean De La Fontaine
Everyone’s destiny is not the same because God wanted each person to have a different future. Destiny is that one thing that we can never control. We can have control over our choices, thinking, and actions but can’t have it on destiny. What is destined to happen would happen and none other than the supreme being can control it. Some things like happiness and sadness should be left to destiny, many people do many things to find ecstasies but rather get disappointed. If we are destined to have a smooth life, we would but if it’s destined to have a bitter life full of downward slopes then whatever we do would do no good to us.